I wish someone had given me this book when I was 21-years-old.
The Parallel University: Create a balanced life and have it all - Richard Krohn
Some become adults at 18, some at 35. Some never make it. Do not fear failure. Successful people fail more than others because they do more.
On turning 18 you have a big decision to make. Are you going to take responsibility for yourself or are you going to rely on society?
If you want to be self-reliant you need to start now!.
Self-reliance starts with not leaning on others and moves to buying houses, educating children and then providing for yourself in retirement. That requires a lot of planning. To get it right you need to understand your environment, understand yourself, and balance your lifestyle with job satisfaction, financial rewards, personal integrity and a sense of self.
Life can be tough, but satisfaction is only ever achieved when you shoulder a load and step outside your comfort zone.
Self-reliance invites you to achieve your social responsibility of providing for yourself and your family.